Causes of conflicts in the family

1.

CAUSES OF CONFLICTS
IN THE FAMILY

2.

DOMESTIC
DRUNKENNESS AND
ALCOHOLISM
ALCOHOL ABUSE BY ONE OF THE SPOUSES CREATES AN ABNORMAL ATMOSPHERE IN THE FAMILY AND
A CONSTANT GROUND FOR CONFLICTS AND SCANDALS. THERE ARE TRAUMATIC SITUATIONS FOR ALL
FAMILY MEMBERS..

3.

READY FOR BATTLE
SPOUSES ARE CONSTANTLY IN A STATE OF TENSION ASSOCIATED WITH THE NEED
TO REPEL PSYCHOLOGICAL ATTACKS: THE INEVITABILITY OF QUARRELS HAS
BECOME STRONGER IN EVERYONE'S MIND, INTRA-FAMILY BEHAVIOR IS BUILT AS A
STRUGGLE FOR VICTORY IN A CONFLICT.

4.

YOU DON'T APPRECIATE ME
• The most difficult conflicts arise when one of the partners feels undervalued. What
complicates the situation even more is the appreciation that has to be "begged" from the
partner, which in essence cannot be considered a sincere expression of respect or
recognition of merit.

5.

YOU'RE SPENDING
TOO MUCH MONEY
LIVING TOGETHER IMPLIES COMMON EXPENSES AND RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEM. THIS IS
A HUGE CHANGE COMPARED TO WHEN YOU WERE SINGLE. IF YOU'VE SPENT TOO
MUCH MONEY BEFORE, THEN THERE WAS NO ONE TO BLAME BUT YOURSELF. BUT NOW
YOUR OVERSPENDING OF THE FAMILY BUDGET CAUSES THE PARTNER'S INDIGNATION.