Why Nice People Are Scary

1. Why Nice People Are Scary

The School of Life
Kunzilya Yerdaulet

2. It sounds so plausible

Adjective
1.having an appearance of truth or reason; seemingly worthy of approval
or acceptance; credible; believable: a plausible excuse; a plausible plot.
2.wellspoken and apparently, but often deceptively, worthy of confidence
or trust: a plausible commentator.
IT SOUNDS SO PLAUSIBLE

3. Would you like to go out for a drink sometime?

WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO OUT
FOR A DRINK SOMETIME?

4. Being convinced

Уверенный
Убежденный
BEING CONVINCED

5. Lovability

adjective
1.
of such a nature as to attract love; deserving love; amiable;
endearing.
Amiable – любезный
LOVABILITY

6. Person’s affection

Noun
1.fond attachment, devotion, or love:
the affection of a parent for an only child.
PERSON’S AFFECTION

7. Unnerve

verb (used with object), unnerved, unnerving.
1.to deprive of courage, strength, determination, or
confidence; upset:
UNNERVE

8. Their niceness Can be so unsettling

Vex - беспокоить, досаждать
Agitate - волновать
to vex or agitate the mind or emotions of; upset; discompose:
The quarrel unsettled her.
THEIR NICENESS CAN BE SO
UNSETTLING

9. Profound

penetrating or entering deeply into subjects of thought or knowledge;
having deep insight or understanding:
a profound thinker.
PROFOUND

10. Hang out

HANG OUT

11. Figure out

FIGURE OUT

12. Assessment

the act of assessing; appraisal; evaluation.
ASSESSMENT

13. align

согласовать, согласовывать
Their assessment of us is more align with our
assessment of ourselves.
ALIGN

14. Hold against

HOLD AGAINST

15. Overlooked

to fail to notice, perceive, or consider:
to overlook a misspelled word.
OVERLOOKED

16. Freak out

FREAK OUT

17. Hang on in there

HANG ON IN THERE

18. The situations to discuss

19. You’re clever, you’re pretty, you’re funny; why can’t you find the right man/women?

YOU’RE CLEVER, YOU’RE PRETTY,
YOU’RE FUNNY; WHY CAN’T YOU FIND
THE RIGHT MAN/WOMEN?

20. Though we say we need someone kind and nice, in practice it’s pretty hard to deal with niceness when it does come along.

THOUGH WE SAY WE NEED SOMEONE
KIND AND NICE, IN PRACTICE IT’S
PRETTY HARD TO DEAL WITH NICENESS
WHEN IT DOES COME ALONG.

21. A tiny part of us might think: ‘If they’re any good, why are they interested in us?’

A TINY PART OF US MIGHT THINK: ‘IF
THEY’RE ANY GOOD, WHY ARE THEY
INTERESTED IN US?’

22. If we aren’t totally convinced of our own lovability, another person’s affections could be a bit unnerving.

IF WE AREN’T TOTALLY CONVINCED OF
OUR OWN LOVABILITY, ANOTHER
PERSON’S AFFECTIONS COULD BE A BIT
UNNERVING.

23. Their niceness can be so unsettling you might even try a trick or two.

THEIR NICENESS CAN BE SO
UNSETTLING YOU MIGHT EVEN TRY A
TRICK OR TWO.

24. We shouldn’t hold it against nice people if they like us. Maybe they see something in us we’ve overlooked.

WE SHOULDN’T HOLD IT AGAINST NICE
PEOPLE IF THEY LIKE US. MAYBE THEY
SEE SOMETHING IN US WE’VE
OVERLOOKED.

25. But you, the nice ones, shouldn't be naive either. It’s very frightening to have a deal with niceness.

BUT YOU, THE NICE ONES, SHOULDN'T
BE NAIVE EITHER. IT’S VERY
FRIGHTENING TO HAVE A DEAL WITH
NICENESS.

26. It can be unfamiliar. It can freak some if us out.

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IT CAN BE UNFAMILIAR. IT CAN FREAK
SOME IF US OUT.

27. The School of Life

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THE SCHOOL OF LIFE
KUNZILYA YERDAULET